After the holidays, many families find themselves thinking about what’s next—new phases, future planning, and conversations they’ve been postponing. When it comes to downsizing or moving, there are a lot of common assumptions about how and when things will unfold. Based on years of hands-on experience supporting families through these transitions, here are a few myths we regularly encounter—and what tends to happen instead.
Myth: “We’ll wait until the weather improves.”
Experience: Planning early—regardless of season—creates flexibility. Families who start sooner often avoid last-minute pressure and limited availability later in the year. Further, professional downsizers have the training and equipment needed to help you move safely and efficiently in winter conditions.
Myth: “We’ll deal with this when it becomes urgent.”
Experience: Moves that happen under pressure tend to be more stressful and more limiting. When families start planning earlier—even without firm timelines—seniors usually have more choice, better pacing, and a greater sense of control.
Myth: “Downsizing means getting rid of most things.”
Experience: Downsizing is less about volume and more about intention. With time and support, people make thoughtful decisions about what to keep, pass on, or let go—often with far less regret than they expect.
Myth: “Once we decide, everything will move quickly.”
Experience: The decision is only the first step. Sorting, coordinating services, and navigating the emotional side of change typically take longer than families anticipate—and that’s completely normal.
Myth: “Our family can handle this on our own.”
Experience: Families are essential, but managing the logistics, timelines, and details can quickly feel like a second full-time job. Professional support often reduces stress and family tension.
The winter season may encourage people to hunker down at home, but we find that there are just as many reasons to move in winter as there are to wait. Even just starting the process now, rather than waiting for it to become urgent, can help make the whole downsizing journey easier.
